Sometimes i still can’t believe i’m an adult. Like in my head, I’m 25, maybe 28 yo.
Then i recall all my extremely adult responsibilities and bills, and feel like my age again.
The best thing about being an adult is the ability to choose what to spend your money on,
how to spend your time, and with whom to spend it with.
We owe nobody explanations!
We are independent confident beings who make our own decisions for OURSELVES!
I can live in three different cities throughout a year, if i choose to.
I can also live in a cardboard box painted in pink if i wanted to.
The point is – that wonderful FREEDOM OF CHOICE that some of us are privileged to have
(i recognise and acknowledge my privilege).
I relished in my freedom as a young adult, when i traveled extensively in 2015.
I was single, self-assured, financially independent, adventurous and beautiful (still beautiful, but less collagen intact).
That year, i discovered that shopping for adult toys on a weekday afternoon in Berlin with a dashing Italian tinder date was possible.
I also discovered that missing a flight from Las Vegas due to a domino effect of incidents – including shopping for items in the biggest adult store i’d ever encountered in my life – was possible.
I had a habit of shopping for adult accessories overseas, cos the options and quality were better than what we could get at the time in Malaysia.
In 2018 when i visited the States, i merely googled “adult toy awards” to decide on my purchase and got it sent to my address while i was in California.
It was around 2020 when online stores selling sex toys in MY & SG became more prominent and somewhat acceptable. Sales for sex toys skyrocketed the world over during the pandemic, and i wished i owned a store then.
And now… a few years later, we have so many options at our disposal.
A few clicks and orgasmic opportunities are delivered right to our doorstep.
Plus, technology has altered drastically!
Now there are sucking toys, licking ones which vibrate (even the human tongue cannot do this!!), and toys to achieve multi-sensorial touchpoints.
My collection has since expanded to all the above, and tbh i don’t use some of them regularly cos it’s just so intense…
But what i do* love to have – is the CHOICE.
SO many choices for what i feel like, depending on the mood I’m in, how much time i want to commit for a cum (5 seconds? 5 mins? 15 mins?) and subsequently the choice which i will reach for, whether it’s for solo or couples play.
When Hedonist Tribe offered to send me toys, it didn’t take me long to decide whether i’d collaborate with them for a giveaway.
I am a proponent to healthy sex play, especially for women who physically can orgasm multiple times in a day wth no repercussions.
It’s an object with the best ROI ever, and they’re all so pleasing to look at (compared to circa 2002 when some toys looked a little scary).
This weekend, I’ll be giving away the new Venus Licking Vibrator 2.0
Behold!
What a beaut! ๐
Text from the Hedonist Tribe website:
“This mischievous sidekick ensures you relish both inner (vaginal/ G-spot) and external (clitoral/ C-spot) bliss.
Tongue-twisting sensation: It mimics the real deal with a tantalizing licking feature and a soft silicone material that elevates the sensation.
9 Vibrating Modes:ย Experience intense pleasure with 9 vibrating modes and 9 tongue action modes โ like having a skilled partner who knows all your pleasure points.
2-in-1 stimulation:ย Ever heard of blended orgasms? The Venus 2.0 provides dual pleasure internally and externally, promising a deep and satisfying experience.
Fully Waterproof (IPX7): Ensure a feel-good time from the bedroom to the shower โ we’ll leave the creative imagination to you!”
We’ll be giving away 1x Venus Licking Vibrator 2.0 to a lucky winner!
To enter:
๐ Comment in emoticons on this blogpost
๐ Followย @hedonisttribeย &ย @joycethefairy on Instagram
๐ Bonus 1: DM me or Comment here a funny sex/toy-related story.
๐ Bonus 2: Share this blogpost on IGS
T&C:
*This giveaway is for participants above 21 years of age and located in Singapore & Malaysia only.
*Contest ends 11:59PM 27th April 2024
*I will be shortlisting winners on 28th April 2024, and Hedonist will select the final winner.
๐ If you wanna shop, use code JOYCETHEFAIRY10 for 10% discount applicable storewide! ๐
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My wife accidentally left her vibrator on the hotel bed and when we returned to the room the maid had tucked it into the sheets.