I recently thought of starting another blog, one where i can write the real rubbish that goes on in my head and won’t collide with advertorial clients.
What would the clients think? Me writing about my imaginary conversations and rescue missions of drowning ants in my bathroom? I should really be concentrating on proper posts, non?
Then another thought would crop up – that, wait, isn’t this what a blog is supposed to be in the first place? To write whatever i want to spurt and chuck online, to italize and to bold, from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, till disconnection do us part?
Then the thoughts would return –
ah-lah i cannot write all the random crazy shit i used to like last time because only three people read it then.
There was noone to judge,
no worries on whether people would read it only to get bored and wonder why the fuck is this girl always being featured for,
no care for whether my content would match my ads,
no censorship of the man in my life,
no deletion of comments because prying eyes and spiteful mouths were absent.
Now, it’s
wondering whether i should cut down my cursing,
censoring drunkard escapades because people point fingers and go, “What a wasteful life of partying you and your friends lead,”
talking to friends who are used to limelight to being told that rumour-mongering and backstabbing is normal and just to remember to stick to old friends (which in turn makes me think: shouldn’t everyone be given a chance at being a friend? not everyone is sneaky or bitchy),
trying to make sure i don’t make spelling or grammar mistakes so that people don’t go telling my eds, “Hey, that kinkybluefairy doesn’t know how to speak england” -_-,
cutting out my daily going-abouts because i don’t want it to clutter my blog,
and moderating these bitchy comments people leave which baffle me – so interested and so much time on their hands to dissect my posts and translate them into their own meaning of my life, have they.
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Hmm halfway writing the post above, i ended up staring a new one with KinkyPugKevin helping me with the simple design.
He said i’m making things complicated by starting a second blog.
I replied that it’s just to write my what-i-ate-today and inanimate-objects-i-spoke-to-today rubbish.
And that if it doesn’t work out, so be it.
Let me get into the groove of it first 
then i’ll link it.
hey kinky.
blue.
fairy?
it doesn’t matter what others will think of you, because it is precisely the way you’ve been blogging that attracts people to keep coming back to read.
you strike to me as someone who doesn’t take shit from people anyway, so why not let it stay that way?
just giving you my two cents worth.
love reading your blog btw.
=D
Well, i have been your reader for sometimes and i visit your blog religiously everyday. However, this is the first time leaving a comment for you.
Just want to let you know that i enjoy reading the stories, the parties… please be who you are, because that what attracted me here.
Well, take care and have fun. Oh yeah… please do write more. π
Cheerssssss
Just do what you like and don’t give a shit about what people think. After all it’s your life. There are lots of people who always bring us down…whether intentionally or not. Even family members does that sometimes…
Anyway, what i wanted to say is, i really really enjoyed reading your blog π
So keep up the good work !!!
Hey. I stumbled upon your blog sometime ago and I’ve been addicted ever since lah! Your posts make me laugh (in a good way of course) π
Anyhows just wanted to say I think you write awesome stuff and I totally love your random-ness. Keep blogging!
PS Am looking forward to reading bout the ants! π
i enjoy reading all the stuff u used to write and i still enjoy your blog now very much but i thought your posts then were the best. don’t lah withhold so much!!!
anyway, apparently one time when my blog was being proposed for advertorial in a meeting, as it popped up, all the client could see were swear words in caps and my bra over my head. so they weren’t happy but well f–k them. there are always other clients who want the bloggers to be themselves. besides, if u started writing safely, us readers who love you for your spunkiness will be sorely deprived! how? then the readers leave then no advertorials? big leap but yeah! joyce fuck em lahhhhhh sory emo
hey,
i had the same prob as you but it was a prob between me and my fren.i wrote sumthin bout me which i censored which is not even hinting its about her but she expose herself out by leaving a comment which tells its actually her that i’m talking about.after that,i did a secret blog as i couldn’t keep ppl happy anymore by the way i write and eventually wrote less and censored more on my public blog.now i did another blog which is totally fuck watever ppl thinks becoz honestly,you can’t always please ppl and i love ur blog just the way it is.
Why so drama. What else you want to hide
Not like we never seen you half naked or smooching everyone, getting drunk haha
Unless you try to lead a double life and pretend to be nice now? Is the advertorial so important anyway. Bet the man of your life can take care of that ;D
Oh btw wonder why you delete my cmmts. Don’t be bias hehe! There’s no swearing what… Chill!
to everyone: thanks… i’ll urm think about it… don’t worry, i don’t think i’ll withhold myself in my other one just separating the content π
supamamia: because your comments are unnecessary and spiteful. so delete la. tiu.
But, if you have another blog, and you link it, people will click that link and go to that blog and read all the stupid stuff that you do, and all your grammar mistakes, and complain to your ed and clients anyway.
My two-cents nia lar.
well,can’t wait to c ur other blog when u link it.take care and i love the blog just the way it is.
Back then you’re just another ordinary college girl (who cares) now you mark your presence attracting attention through your so obvious hair everywhere & ppl notice so they judge…
Isn’t that what you want? Being known and famous?
… and from this blog…
to pretaporter,
its just my opinion and i’m not saying whether i’m right or wrong but seriously,a blog is like a personal diary and like it or not,even if you do become known and famous for your blog ,its kinda sad when you can’t even express yourself on your own blog.i hope you understand its my own opinion.thanks.take care.
Blog has become an open-diary to public. There’s a private option to conceal it from others (certain post if you want to express yourself without being judged).
In joyce case, she’s thinking of generating money from the blog hence the separation of the contents. I think that’s her main reason…
… and being famous has it’s PRICE! Haha!
to pretaporter,
its true that u can conceal it from others but honestly,joyce started this blog to share her life with her friends and so what,if she wanna earns money from this blog,its her blog but there have been cases where people misjudged someone just because of something that’s totally taken out of context from someone’s blog,i’m just saying that joyce has made a right decision to start another blog and that we should respect her privacy despite how much we love her blog for what it is and hope for her to continue to write like last time as i believe that everyone even someone famous deserves a lil bit of privacy to themselves.
yo!!!:) dun worry.. ppl dig crap π esp when its really and funny.. thats wud make u the fairy π cherios!